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I feel the penis of my boyfriend is too big for my vagina. I have had sex with him few times but I think his penis is way bigger than my vagina can stand. He is almost two meters tall and I am 1.60 meters. He has a long and wide penis. The length is okay for my vagina but I feel his penis is so wide. We even had problems putting the 3,5mm wide standard condom, so we had to buy bigger condoms that "fit" better his penis. I am worried that we are not compatible. And I am noticing I am getting anxious about getting sex because I am afraid it may hurt
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The vagina is the birth canal and reproductive organ in women. It is shaped like a 7-10 centimeter long, relatively thin-walled, stretchy tube of smooth muscle and connective tissue covered with mucous membrane. Since a vagina is made for bearing children, the thickness of a penis is rarely a problem. The length and wide expands when you are sexually aroused. If your vagina feels a little tight and he is a little too thick, then you have to take your time to use lubricant. Make sure the vagina is clear and wet, and that you want sex.
A long penis, especially if you have rough sex with deep, sudden movements, can very easily hit your cervix. The solution is to try to find positions where the penis cannot push in so far. Avoid positions where it hurts, and be aware that in some positions, you cannot push all the way in. The missionary position is nice, because then he doesn't have to get in so deep. Or an “advanced missionary”, with your legs gathering between his legs. Another position where you have more control, is when you sit on top. Then you can more easily regulate how much of the penis you take in. The "spoon position" is also nice if he is big, then you can also control the depth.
Hope this was enlightening for you.
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