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I’ve been feeling really disheartened with my MA program. I came to UiO with high expectations. The professors are great, the material is rich, and the resources are amazing. But working with other students has been exhausting. In most group projects, I end up doing three times the work because some don’t have even basic skills in the field. It’s draining to constantly fix things just to reach a decent standard. I understand that people come from different backgrounds, but it feels deeply unfair that my effort and standards don’t really count for anything when group grades or outcomes are shared equally. It’s starting to take a toll on my motivation and well-being. I feel trapped in a system that values equality more than actual learning or excellence, and I’m honestly questioning if I can keep doing this for two years. I’m even thinking about quitting UiO and applying to a university with higher admission standards. It’s starting to really affect my motivation and I just feel tired.
Klinisk sosionom og psykolog svarer
It can't be a good feeling to travel to another country and University with motivation and high expectations and then feeling drained. And maybe some unfairness? We know a lot of students can struggle to balance the work in group projects. So, you are not alone.
However, before making a decision to leave UiO, we suggest you reflect on these questions first:
- Can you address your difficulties with one of your professors or a student counselor? They may offer you support and validation, especially on your motivation.
- Is it possible to work alone? Maybe you can ask someone in your MA program.
How to survive group projects:
- The thought behind group projects during university degrees is to build skills like teamwork, communication, problem-solving etc. These skills are essential for most workplaces.
- Focus on learning teamwork skills — they can help later on (even if it doesn’t feel like it).
- Students often learn from each other, and by discussing the topics with others, you will learn in a different way. Your comprehension develops by both reading, speaking and listening.
- Group projects can help to navigate through cultural differences.
- Talk with the other students in your group. What do they think are working, and what is difficult with the teamwork from their point of view.
- Do you divide all the parts between you? Or do you work together at the same time on the same part? If you are only trying one version, give the other a try.
Lastly, but equally as important: take good care of yourself in the situation you’re in. Do you sleep, eat, spend time with friends, work-out, take breaks? If you are stuck in the situation for now, make sure you don't drown.
Best of luck!
Vennlig hilsen,
Klinisk sosionom og familieterapeut